Questioning Transphobia

Philadelphia: another woman murdered

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I’ve just been reading a news report of what appears to be the murder of yet another trans woman, known only by her first name (Stacey), this time in Point Breeze, Philadelphia. I’ve only seen this one report so far and, as ever, some of the language – mostly from the Police Department’s report – is, well, just plain wrong. Offensive and demeaning, frankly. Really, if someone lives as a woman and is known to her family, friends and neighbours as a woman, why would you want to misgender her?

Usually it’s because of a legal system which is too busted, and those who run it too bigoted and transphobic, to allow for the possibility that, although some women may well be trans, that’s no reason to dehumanise them by denying appropriate documentation. By the look of it, the local PD in this instance is another one which has yet to make that great leap forward into the 21st century, where trans women are treated like the humans we are.

So via the Philadelphia Daily News, the main points (edited for clarity) seem to be:

A [transsexual woman] whom neighbors described as “beautiful” was found dead in her Point Breeze home Monday night by her live-in boyfriend.

Initial reports from police said the victim [...] was found with a pillow case around her neck, but Homicide Sgt. Bob Wilkins denied that yesterday.

He said there were no visible signs of trauma to the victim, such as stab or bullet wounds, but he declined to speculate on a cause of death until an autopsy report is released.

As of last night, police still had not received autopsy results, and declined to classify the death as a homicide.

But several neighbors who said they knew [Stacey] said police on the scene Monday night told them that the victim had been found face-down – either naked or half-dressed in provocative clothing – and that she had been strangled.

Wilkins said [Stacey] was found on the floor of a second-story rear bedroom in her home, on Manton Street near 18th, but he declined to elaborate.

[...]

Neighbors described Stacey and her boyfriend, who had lived on the block for less than a year, as a quiet, private couple.

One neighbor who asked to be identified only as Darlene said she would sit on the steps and talk with the victim some mornings while she waited for a cab. She described the victim as “really nice and very friendly.”

[...]

Darlene said she remembered watching a hulking, white, bald man leave Stacey’s corner rowhouse sometime before 4 p.m. Monday.

It was several hours later that neighbors said Stacey’s boyfriend came home and ran out of the house screaming.

Police said the victim’s roommate called them to the scene about 9:30 p.m. and flagged them down as they arrived.

RIP Stacey; I hope justice is served against your murderer very soon. My condolences to your loved ones.

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Written by Helen

October 13th, 2010 at 4:37 am

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  1. Stacey Blahnik was one of the shining stars of the Philly ballroom scene known for both her beauty and grace. She was the mother of the House of Blahnik. She was also a great friend/mentor/activist for many in the Philadelphia trans community.

    ginasf

    13 Oct 10 at 10:44 am

  2. I love how the word beautiful is in scare quotes. e__e

    Sean

    13 Oct 10 at 12:56 pm

  3. As noted above (and confirmed here: http://abclocal.go.com/wpvi/story?section=news/crime&id=7719601 ), the victim was Stacey Blahnik, a trans activist. This total smothering of her identity is absolutely shameful and completely unacceptable. My sympathies to everyone who knew her. I hope her murderer is found and brought to justice.

    Autumn

    13 Oct 10 at 3:25 pm

  4. “Initial reports said the victim – identified by police as 31-year-old [Male name] but by neighbors as “Stacy” – was found with a pillow case around her neck, but Homicide Sgt. Bob Wilkins refuted that yesterday.”

    Except [Male name] really listed her male name and then cruelly follows it with Stacy in quotes, like it was an inferior identity to the male role that was thrust upon her when she entered this world.

    Summer

    13 Oct 10 at 9:35 pm

  5. Tomorrow (Saturday) evening, there will be a candle light memorial for Stacey here in Philadelphia. Details can be found at http://houseofblahnik.org/2010/02/dummy-featured-post/. I will be attending and hope others can make it as well.

    Lucy

    15 Oct 10 at 4:08 pm

  6. A quick scan of Feministe, The Curvature, and Alas, a blog shows nothing, nada, zip, crickets on Stacy Blahnik’s death.

    Instead, we have another in a long string of hairy-legged-women and humpy-guys-in-bikinis posts on Feministe, paean #4646535895 to the Beatles on the Curvature, and a post ironically titled “FCKH8″ and tagged “trans” but with nary a peep about Stacy’s murder at Alas.

    *sigh*

    “Nothing changes on New Year’s Day”

    GallingGalla

    15 Oct 10 at 7:46 pm

  7. I lost my best friend and to this point it still seems unreal and like yesterday. We shared every thing about each other and I’ve kind of went into shell shock when it happened. I hear everybody talk about her but its almost to a point that I still try to deny it. I love you Stacey.

    Damita Jo

    27 Mar 11 at 6:36 pm

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